This weekend made up for that. Wes and I were able to spend time talking with Jeff, learning a bit more about him and how he feels towards Becky. They are both in love and it is nice to see how they care for each other and the love and respect they show one another. Sunday afternoon we made a trek to the Rose Garden here in Portland. Now this Garden usually is full of roses of every color by now...the aromas and colors are wonderful..BUT...this year everything is green! No flowers, tiny buds but not one rose in bloom! I must admit it seemed kind of strange. We were able to find some other flowers and trees in bloom and we got some pictures.
Bethany also liked getting to know Jeff a bit better and she enjoyed spending time with Becky...talking about dance and her upcoming dance recital...we were able to snap a photo of the two of them together...don't they look a lot a like? Bethany is the little sister that Becky always knew she was going to have. They are 9 years apart in age but I think over time they will grow closer.
When my girls and boys were little I sometimes thought of how it would be when they grew up. Often I was too busy taking care of little things they needed and before I knew it I realized.."oh my gosh...look at them...they are growing up!" I remember a friend in our Ward once saying "oh enjoy them now, they grow up way too fast." When Margie said this I actually said to her "really?" I think part of being a Mom is that you don't see how quickly that time goes and how quickly your children grow and change till suddenly it hits you. Well, at least that is how it has been for me. I love my kids and am thankful for their love for one another...even when there have been times that I have wondered if they even liked each other. I love this photo of Bethany with Becky and I ...they both look so grown up...I guess I am getting sentimental :)
This weekend was great. Portland couldn't have been nicer. We had warm sunny days. Perfect to be outside and enjoy each other and spend time together. We made sure to take a trip over to the Temple on Sunday afternoon. The Temple grounds were beautiful. Bryan had fun sitting and playing by the reflective pond.
Becky and Jeff left early this evening for their road trip back to Utah. I am glad for these little moments when we could all be together. It makes you appreciate your kids more and more and realize that they are not really living at home with you for very long. Yet I guess that is how it is supposed to be
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Grace, when I saw your teaser on my blog my first thought was 'They're engaged'. So, I was wrong. What a wonderful weekend you guys had. I'm glad that they were able to visit even if for a few days. You have a beautiful family.
p.s. Margie always gave the best lessons. I still remember some of them.
Wise words coming from a seasoned mother. I've once heard that for a young mother the days drag on but the years fly by. There are so many moments when I wonder if the diaper changing, the messes, the running around, the homework, the bedtime schedule, etc, etc will ever end. I then I remind myself that I shouldn't wish that all away. When it does come to an end I will wish it all back. But, still, its a constant battle to be happy and content in every season you are in so that you don't miss the moments that are happening now. Thanks for the reminder.
P.S. Can't wait to stay updated on Becky and Jeff.
All of your kids look so much alike. Your girls are so beautiful.
My oldest is almost 11 and already I can feel how fast time fly's by. Matt and I were discussing a few days ago about how in 11 more years we could easily be grandparents. Now, that's freaky! I can't imagine the day that Rylie brings home her boyfriend. Yikes!
Grace, I love the new look of your blog. It is so pretty. I am dropping by to tell you I have nominated you for a blog award. Go to my blog to retrieve it. I am grateful to have you as my friend. Debbie
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